You stand out—
but never alone.
Hello Friend,
I have never accomplished anything entirely on my own. Family, friends, and sometimes people I don’t know played a role in supporting my efforts.
You read stories of how individuals overcame obstacles, pulling themselves by their proverbial “bootstraps.” Yes, we must take the first step and possess some self-motivation.
No one ever really goes it alone.
When I was going to graduate school, working full-time, and just trying to keep my head above water, I was surrounded by love and support. My husband cooked dinner for himself or our sons. One son would bring me snacks late at night or on the weekend as I scoured research articles and wrote papers.
Friends sent notes of encouragement and hung with me, foregoing lunch and excursions. My daughter, busy with a new baby, never let me forget that my goals mattered. Our youngest son listened as I expounded on some new theory or idea fermenting in my thoughts.
Could I have reached the destination without the guidance of a brilliant professor or classmates who challenged my thinking? Maybe, but each gave me a piece of courage and persistence that smoothed the path.
On graduation day, I may have been the one walking across the stage, but I was never alone. And I am forever grateful.
Who stands by you?
Stand by me, always
So true
“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.”
—e.e. cummings
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And always—
Be kind. Be Brave. Be You!
Kathryn
PS: My kind, brave, persistent granddaughter graduates from college next week. Her crowd of supporters stands to the side, cheering.
Congratulations Emily!
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Wonderful read Kathryn, and your photos are excellent.
Lovely article, Kathryn. I like to say 'it takes a village' as we go through life.